Heck, I’d even like to know how to do it like that if it’s the only way possible. It’s pretty dumb when you can’t get into the fetish cafe just because you picked the wrong proxy to start with.
It’s not one of yours - from Nostordamus’s mod, I believe; the bathhouse quest chain in particular. I know it isn’t yours, I was just wondering if there is a way to use the dev mode to try and fix something like that, reset the event flags or something.
Generally, download the mod you want, extract the archive, and merge its gamedata folder with the gamedata folder of your existing install, overwriting files if necessary.