I appreciate the concern, especially because this tangent threatens to derail your discussion (possibly to a premature closure, given the “Keep it Civil” rule here).
At risk of jinxing it, I think you stepped in at the right time after letting these grievances breathe a bit (Baalf and others have had this debate before). It boils down to the others generally arguing that people are entitled to their opinions and should make games that they themselves enjoy. Baalf’s counterargument is that those opinions (and the games that result) are species-ist. I have not (and will not) choose a side of this debate, because both make good points. Both sides also can get pretty defensive, neglecting the rule of rhetoric that it is “you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar” [insert Kermit Lipton Tea meme].
To answer your question, though, my personal favorite as far as male fat furs goes is Soft Fantasies, but I can imagine that you are already familiar with Ziul’s popular (“paw-pular?”) VN.
P.S. I usually disapprove of these “I’m looking for a game with [this feature]” threads–they tend to become redundant–, but as long as the inquirer shows that they have already done some research of their own (i.e., they already found some works that at least partially fit the description), I find the requests acceptable. Psst! You get a pass because I like what you are asking for *wink*.