Male feeder who generally plays from female feedee perspective. I guess because I most prefer the idea of the person eating a lot and either enjoying the gain or intentionally eating to gain, which is easiest to imagine when I’m the one directly controlling the character.
It’s actually a question that I had to put some thought into. My first instinctual reply to that question was at first, “Why, male feeder of course! That way I would get to feed, cuddle, and rub the feedee lady’s lovely belly. x3” However, now that I’m thinking about it some more, I would actually have to say…either. Both points of view in a fetish story are quite appeasing to me! Like, if I were to wake up one day as a complete female version of myself with a ravenous appetite and ate an entire buffet’s worth of food, then yes, I would love the feeling of having a full and overstuffed, noisy belly. Sorry I could only answer this with a huge paragraph. XD
really neither its odd cause size does not matter to me im really just a face and personality person but if you were to get a set of twins with the same personality and face but the one was fat i would like her more i think