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And that is why i left the server, Personally too much of a hassle and i never seen any other 18+ servers have to require you too get pass a sort of inspection and right of passage just to browse.
I get not wanting the underage users access to such a server but i seriously still think that it’s a bit extreme of a measurement of a requirement for such a simple thing as a discord server… Besides it we are to be honest even with these extra requirements i doubt it actually is working on keeping any kids out.
Please do explain why reading rules is some insurmountable topic. What exactly do you think is the problem with reading comprehension? You haven’t really brought up anything. Just that is apparently is somehow super strict. If you don’t want to read the rules, just own up to that then trying to drum up why it’s super weird and complicated. There isn’t anything wrong with that requirement just because you don’t like reading.
i have read the rules but the fact you need approval in the first place to even browse the discord is in my opinion a bit ridiculous, It feels much less welcoming that way.
And even if you do everything it states too correctly there is still no guaranteed that you will be accepted, And then there is the fact you have to DM and state information about yourself is exactly why i pointed the server as being strict at least via entry.
you call these just simple rules but yet you require someone too have to DM and give a introduction letter like you are applying for a university it’s a bit much imo.
You did not in fact, do everything it states correctly. You failed to indicate you’ve read all of the rules. It’s a simple read the rules, provide the requirements it asks of you. You didn’t do that. So you weren’t allowed in. You kind of just stubbornly doubled down on not doing that.
and how exactly are you suppose to prove that you have read the rules? do you want me to VC with you and list down everything by order. You say to not simply copy and paste what do you ask that i write you a essay on why i should be allowed to join the server? just stating this kind of gatekeeping doesn’t make the server feel like it is very welcoming.
The part you screenshot literally tells you the three things you gotta put down. You’re still having trouble reading it. I’m not asking for paragraphs of your life’s story. The fact you’re refusing to look at what you just posted just makes it seem like this complicated task is all in your head.
IF it is so easy then why have others who have also done the same thing that are on here have done everything that is required and were still refused access such as @GrimRyu
GrimRyu kept not giving the requirements despite getting pinged about it.
Anyways no point in arguing on this topic, i still think that it should be changed in some way, most 18+ servers have a simple role for the nsfw channels that assigned too those that are over the age bracket but again even with how you run the server now it’s not going to stop people under 18 from joining undetected.
Just most people get turned off from these type of conditions. and then you lose potential members of the community.
I have to say BS to that statement. NSFW roles would not address what I’m trying to do in any regard.
The server is already a 18+ server being a fat fetish server. I’d rather have it on the people joining that they are either telling the truth, or lying to my face. To put the burden on them for their own actions. Rather then try to pass of nonsense about not reading the rules.
Just reading the rules and giving the requirements is a far cry from actual strict measures for getting in.
again most people don’t want to bother DMing someone else to access a server that they are interested in, most people want to be able to access said server at least some of it too browse and get the feel for it, I like to first browse a server before i commit too it and yes you got me there, having to write an introduction to someone and waiting for a response back is a real turn off for me which is why i left.
“I read the rules, and am over 18. [Code Phase]”
It takes at most like 2 minutes to read over the rules, it’s not a super big ask to just request people actually read them.
i know that but messaging someone else to access a server in any form is going to cause some people too look at it and then say “nope” and leave…
Just saying because of that you are potentially missing out on potential discord members who might be interested in joining but rather choose not too because they cannot be bothered too have to wait for a response back. Call it impatience call it whatever you choose it to be, But i guaranteed if you guys never implemented this requirement you would be getting much more followers.
If we never implemented this requirement. We’d have so many people constantly breaking the rules and acting surprised that there were apparently rules they had to follow.
It’s because of constant rule breaking I had to put my foot down on this matter. I’d love nothing more then not have to keep up with every dm and just let people in. But people don’t really have standards is what I’ve learned. So now there’s at least a good amount of people that can follow those rules. And it’s a pretty nice place now for that.
hmm, idk i am part of some pretty big adult servers and they are fairly chill from what i experienced over there, perhaps the odd bot attack which i understand if that is another reason for the requirements “too keep bots out (and trolls)” but it’s really a double edged sword, sure you keep out few bad apples but then you also lose some good ones as well.
I may not agree with it but i can understand why.
If something as simple as just reading some rules. And giving me a heads up that they have indeed been read is difficult. I’m not sure it’s as big of a loss for the server. I’d rather not have anyone that’d disregard them.
Bot attacks haven’t really been a major thing. Only one attempt that I can recall and that was a few years ago. The issue was mainly kids getting in, yes. Uncovering a couple of them hiding their age prompted these requirements. And implementing these requirements have gotten some to take the hint and leave afterwards.
It’s not that i don’t understand the rules and why they are in place but i just think it’s a bit ridiculous to have to message the owner to get access is all.
Since i cannot think of a server at the top of my head that does this, Besides some very inclusive groups such as a particular vegan server i am personally not part of but know about. Except they are much more selective in who gets in.